10 Things Not to Say on a FIRST Date

  • Holly Wagner
  • Jun 21, 2012
  • Category: relationships
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10 Things Not to Say on a FIRST Date


1. “That reminds me of my ex-boyfriend…”  (This is not the time to talk about your romantic history!)

2. “So, when do you see yourself settling down, getting married and having kids?”  (Avoid conversations that lead him to believe you are already picking out the china!)

3. “I was just wondering... how much money do you make exactly?”  (Too much info, way too soon.)

4. “Do you have any ibuprofen with you?  I have horrible cramps!”  (This is not your girlfriend you are talking to!)

5. “I was praying, and God told me you are THE ONE.”  (That just sounds WEIRD.)

6. “Do I have something in my teeth?”  (Remember, you are a lady.  If you have questions about your appearance, that’s what the restroom mirror is for.)

7. “Let’s talk politics!  What are your political views?”  (The first date is not the place to debate.)

8. “It’s so great to finally get asked out on a date!”  (And try to leave out any possible references to past Friday nights with Ben & Jerry and the latest romantic comedy.)

9. “Are you going to open that door for me, or do I have to do everything myself?”  (No one likes a nag.)  

10. “Have you ever thought about getting your eyebrows waxed?”  (Keep all grooming and makeover urges to yourself.)

Comments(1)

Sunny Stone on Jun 21, 2012 4:36pm

Wow Holly!!! I love this. It sure would be nice to read additional "What not to say" on a first date in segments, especially for women like me who haven't dated for a while or in my case I haven't dated for 12 years due to working on the way I treat myself and others first in accordance with the character of God. I'm emotionally and spiritually restored and healthy now and ready to be found by the Godly man God has chosen for me. In God's time of course cause that kind of timing is always perfect.
Yes more advice on relationships are great.
On my 9 year journey to healing and restoration here at Oasis I've read all of your books Holly and my favorite Book is the one that you and Philip wrote together! Wonderful and funny in a real life situation kinda way.

Thank you for caring so much about us women ad giving us the tools to navigate our way through the challenges of communicating with one another and the men who are part of our lives. Sunny Stone

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