Don't Believe the Lies!
- Holly Wagner
- Aug 11, 2011
- Category: General
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One of my favorite Disney movies is Mulan. And it is actually based on the life a real Chinese young woman named Hua Mulan. As a young woman, Mulan loved being outside…riding horses and shooting arrows. She was not really interested in what makeup to wear or how to pour tea. Sounds like just a bit of a tomboy! At one point, her aging and wounded father received orders to rejoin the army and fight off invaders.
Mulan’s heart was breaking as he accepted the orders and limped into the house to prepare to leave and join the war. Later that night she quietly snuck into her father’s closet and took his armor. She thought that he was too old for this battle, and so to protect him, she would fight on his behalf.
She uses his sword to cut her beautiful long black hair. She wraps a long cloth round and round her chest, concealing her breasts. She puts on her father’s armor, picks up his sword, mounts her horse and stealthily leaves her home in the middle of the night.
Knowing that her deception could cost her life, she directs her horse to the camp of soldiers all training for war. When she arrives, they do not see a woman. They see a young boy. She maintains the disguise as she prepares for battle.
She actually becomes a fierce warrior and is part of some great victories, and receives recognition for her leadership.
Toward the end of the movie, the emperor is threatened, and her battalion are the only ones left to rescue him. In one battle her disguise inadvertently comes off, and her fellow soldiers see her as the woman she is. At first she is rejected…but then, as herself, she plays a significant role in rescuing the emperor…and is honored for doing so.
And she did it as herself.
We will really only win battles as our self.
I am not sure why we would think that someone else’s armor would be better.
Someone else always looks more qualified.
If I could just look like them, then I would be beautiful.
If I just had what they had, then I would be successful.
We question whether or not we can really win this battle simply with what we have … ourselves.
Why is it that we feel the need to be someone else? Why don’t we see ourselves as good enough?


Comments(11)
Saleena on Aug 17, 2011 10:50am
Love this and I was just sitting at my desk singing "Reflection" such a great take on that movie! Very empowering!
Gena on Aug 17, 2011 12:31pm
Wow...I'm in tears. This is so powerful and just what I needed to read. Thanks Pastor Holly!
Gwen on Aug 17, 2011 12:49pm
So true and just what I needed to hear.
Jennie on Aug 17, 2011 1:54pm
This is a powerful question Pastor Holly!! I found, for myself, that I just wanted to fit in. I tried so hard, as a girl, to be like all my friends, and i never was.
When i became a woman, and a mother, i cut off all my hair, and wore it short, for 10 years, as my way of rebelling against societies ideas of what women should look like, and of course, because the man in my life had a. Thing for short hair, and still, it was not the real me.
As I approach 40, I feel more beautiful and comfortable with me, then I've ever been. My hair is extra long, my way of rebelling against that ridiculous man i mentioned earlier, lol, and I do nothing to it, wash and go, no color either. This is mostly out of convenience and sheer laziness, of course. Women stop me daily to ask me how i do my hair, or where i go for color, ironically, and i laugh, because the less i try to fit in, and please others, the more confident and accepting I am of what God gave me...and not that it matters, but, I've never been noticed more. Thanks for listening!
Julia Jakus on Aug 17, 2011 4:25pm
Awesome!! Thank you Holly!
Holly on Aug 18, 2011 6:30am
Thanks for all of your thoughts friends! Saleena...I hope you were singing loudly! And Jennie...I am sure your hair is magnificent! And Juliia, Gena and Gwen...you are beautiful...wonderfully made!!! Xoxoxo
Helen on Aug 20, 2011 6:51am
Thank you Holly. Very inspirational. You came to mind tonight after hearing you in Sydney at the Colour 2010 Conference. I connected with you because I too have had breast cancer. 12 years later I have secondary breast cancer but am believing God for my healing. Sadly my father died late last year and a few days ago my husband's brother died from leukemia - so am struggling a little. I also have a sister who is fighting brain tumours so would appreciate any encouragement. Overall though God comforts and strengthens me day by day and I try to stay close to him. Otherwise life would be unbearable and I honestly don't know how people cope without God. Love and blessings.
Anonymous on Aug 23, 2011 7:17am
I am so sorry Helen, for all that you are going through? I will pray for you today...that the strength, peace and healing of our God will be yours. Xoxoxo...holly
Anonymous on Aug 26, 2011 3:05am
Helen, I just saw your comment on here. Don't know if you know of Health And Wholeness Through The Holy Communion by Joseph Prince www.josephprince.org. I find it so helpful to take communion daily and he explains it so well. hacres.com could be worth a look too... xxxxxxxx
jenny on Aug 31, 2011 9:49pm
Helen, you and your family are in my prayers, and please try Joseph Prince, I did with my sister for my niece who had to have an opp. GOD, listens and answers Prayers. GOD BLESS.When the devil comes to youwith disbelief, just start praising GOD, and he will flee.
ANAYELI on Dec 27, 2011 9:18pm
HOLA HOLLY, ¡MIS FELICITACIONES!
antes que nada quiero decirte que eres increible,toda un guerrera, una persona muy fortalezida por Dios, hace una semana fui a la biblioteca, con mi familia a comprar biblias resulta que en uno de los pasillos encontre tus libros excelentes!digamos que ya no tenia fuerzas de seguir adelante, pero mira que grande y poderoso es nuestro Dios que me permitio leer tus libros. Eres increible. te admiro por la valentia y fuerza que tienes para seguir adelante.Sabes algun dia me gustaria conocerte.:D
saludos desde Mexico Dios te bendiga.